Our Homeschool Rhythm: What a Typical Day Looks Like and What Has Helped Us Stay Consistent

I get asked a lot about what our homeschool days actually look like. How do we fit everything in? Are we able to stay consistent? How do we keep things fun and low stress with three young kids at home?

The honest answer is that it has taken some time to figure out what works for us. But now that we have a rhythm in place, our days feel so much smoother. The kids know what to expect, I know what to expect, and we are able to accomplish what we need to without it feeling overwhelming.

Something I want to be upfront about is that at this stage, I am concentrating on implementing habits. I am not spending a ton of time on any one thing. I am focused on getting these habits ingrained, doing them consistently, and building a foundation that we can expand on as my kids get older. That has been so freeing for me, and I hope it encourages you too. You do not have to do everything perfectly or for a long time right now. Just get the habits in place and trust that there will be time to go deeper later.

I want to share what our rhythm looks like right now in hopes that it encourages you and maybe gives you a few ideas for your own homeschool days.

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Prioritizing the Core Subjects

One of the things that has helped me the most is deciding what our core subjects are and making sure we do those every single day. For us right now, that means math, language arts, handwriting. Our language arts curriculum also includes reading and spelling which is great because it means we are covering a lot in one place.

I really try to be consistent with these core subjects. If we miss a day here or there because of sickness or a pressing appointment or something that comes up, I do not sweat it. But because we are so consistent most days, when we do have to miss a day I do not worry about it. We are not behind. We just pick back up the next day and keep going. That consistency has given me so much peace.

The Curriculums We Use and Love

I have really loved using The Good and The Beautiful for both our math and language arts curriculums. I actually started out using Saxon for math and switched over to The Good and The Beautiful a few years ago. Personally, I like it so much better. It is extremely well done, so I feel confident that my kids are getting what they need. It is also fun and engaging for them and very open and go for me, which is a huge win. Read more about my decision to switch math curriculums here.

This year I started using the Level 1 Language Arts with my seven year old and it has been awesome for us. It has really helped her reading and spelling, and she enjoys doing it each day. I also have their handwriting workbook for her, which has been a great addition to our routine.

For my five year old, I do not press her too hard with core subjects yet. She is still young, and I believe play and being part of family life are the most important things at this age. But she usually wants to do her own work because her big sister does, which is so sweet. I have the Pre K curriculum book from The Good and The Beautiful for her, and it has really helped her with letter sounds and beginning to read. We call it “her math” and she beams with pride when she sits down with it. I also have a handwriting book for her from The Good and The Beautiful as well.

What Our Morning Looks Like

I like to get up early so I can exercise and have some quiet time before the kids wake up. This has been so important for me. Starting the day having already taken care of myself makes me a better mom and a better teacher.

My oldest is seven now and she has a clock in her room. She knows she can come downstairs at 7:15 if she is awake. Before she comes down, she makes sure her room is picked up, gets dressed, takes any dirty clothes to the laundry room, and makes her bed. Having those expectations in place has been so helpful for both of us.

When she comes downstairs, she reads quietly for a few minutes while I finish reading my Bible. Then we get going on her math while the house is usually still very quiet. I usually make her some eggs while we work on her math and language arts together. It is such a peaceful, focused time and I have found that getting her core subjects done first thing in the morning while it is still quiet has made a huge difference for us.

Sometimes my five year old is awake too, but she is usually content playing quietly in her room for a bit. If she wants to come downstairs, she knows she needs to quietly draw while I work on math with her big sister. This has worked really well.

I try to get my oldest to the independent work part of her math and if possible her language arts before everyone else comes downstairs. Most days we are able to do this, but sometimes she continues after we have our breakfast and devotional time as a family. Either way, it works.

Devotional Time as a Family

Once my three year old wakes up and I get him and my five year old ready, we do our Bible time while they eat breakfast around the table. I keep this pretty simple right now. I read to them from The Child’s Story Bible, which my kids have really enjoyed, and we pray together as a family. Sometimes I read to them from a devotional book and sometimes we sing some hymns together too from My First Hymnal. But I always make sure I read the Bible to them and we pray. My girls enjoy drawing what they hear me read on their dry erase boards. This helps them listen well and gives them something to do while I’m reading to them.

This goes back to what I said about focusing on habits right now. I am not spending a long time on our devotional each morning, but we are doing it every single day. That consistency is what matters most to me in this season. The habit is being built, and as my kids get older and can pay attention for longer, we will expand on it. But for now, it anchors our morning and I love that my kids are growing up knowing that we start our day with God’s Word.

After our devotional time, I do the Pre K curriculum book with my five year old while my older daughter finishes any language arts she needs to and does her handwriting.

One Subject Focus Per Day

After our core subjects are done, we move on to our memory work subject focus for the day. This is one of the things that has made the biggest difference in our homeschool rhythm this year.

Instead of trying to cover all the memory work every single day, we focus on just one subject each day. On Tuesdays we focus on geography. Wednesdays, we focus on history. On Thursdays we focus on science. And on Fridays we cover the Latin, math, and English memory work. Mondays are our community day, so I do not do much schoolwork that morning.

This has worked so well for us. The kids know exactly what to expect each day. It is not overwhelming. And I do not feel like we have to squeeze everything in every single day. We go over the memory work that matches with the subject focus for the day, and that is enough. You can download an editable template of this daily schedule and customize it for your family here!

I also make a playlist of the memory work songs we are learning each week. I often play it while I am cleaning up breakfast or in the car, so the kids are hearing all the memory work most days even though we only sit down and focus on one subject at a time. That extra exposure through songs has been so powerful without adding any extra work to our day.

The Tools That Make Memory Work Simple and Fun

We have a handful of tools that we use during our subject focus time, and together they make memory work feel hands on and enjoyable.

Memory Work Activity Books

My kids love using their Memory Work Activity Books. It has a simple activity for each subject for all 24 weeks. So when we focus on geography, they do the geography activity for that week. When it is history day, they do the history activity. It helps them focus on the memory work in a fun and simple way, and it gives them something hands on to do while they learn. My new Cycle 3 Memory Work Activity Book is COMING SOON and will be available for both 4-7 year olds and for 8-12 year olds.

Placemats

I also make sure to have their placemats out that match with the memory work and subject focus for that day. So on geography day, I have their United States placemat out. On history day, I have their history placemat that aligns with that week’s memory work. On science day, same thing. I have placemats that align with the history and science memory work for all 24 weeks! My Cycle 3 History and Science Placemats will be available very soon! Stay tuned!

It is fun to read over their placemat with them to help us dive a bit deeper into the memory work topic. It is a simple way to spark curiosity in them and dig deeper without requiring any extra prep from me.

Our Huge United States Felt Map

My kids absolutely love using our huge United States felt map during geography time, and honestly most other days too. Since we are learning all about the United States in Cycle 3 this year, this map has been one of our most used tools. They love pulling the states off and snapping them back into the correct spots. It makes geography feel like a game, and they are learning so much just from interacting with it over and over again.

Geography Passports and Workbooks

On geography day, we also grab our Cycle 3 Geography Passports and the kids get to add a stamp to the weekly page once they have mastered the geography for the week. I also have them dive deeper into a state or two using their United States Workbook since we are learning all about the United States in Cycle 3 this year. They do this during the geography focus day or other days too if we have extra time.

Felt Bodies and Science

My girls also love snapping the body parts on and off of their felt bodies that we have on the wall by our breakfast table. They play with these all the time, not just on science days! On our science focus days, I also have my kids work on a few pages of their Systems of the Human Body Activity Book to dive a bit deeper into the body. It is a fun way to build on what they are memorizing and help them understand how everything connects.

The Rest of Our Day

After breakfast, finishing core subjects, and memory work time, we usually take a break. The kids free play while I clean up breakfast, and then if it is nice outside we go take a walk to get some fresh air. I have found that getting outside, even just for a short walk, makes such a difference in everyone’s mood and energy for the rest of the day.

When we get back, we finish up anything we need to and I try to do a read aloud or two from any library books I have gotten that align with the memory work for the week. So if we are focusing on history that day, I will read a history picture book that matches with that week’s memory work. I have a whole Cycle 3 booklist with awesome picture books that go along with each of the 24 weeks of memory work. Having that list ready to go makes it so easy to grab the right books from the library each week.

Then until lunch time the kids play and I try to tidy up a bit or play with them. During lunch time, I read aloud to them from a chapter book. Right now we are reading The Trumpet of the Swan and the kids are loving it.

I have found it is really helpful to have set times in my day when I read to my kids. Then it actually happens amidst the craziness of real life. I always read at lunch time and before bed, and often other times too. But lunch time and before bed, it always happens. If you are struggling to find time for read alouds, I would really encourage you to pick one or two times in your day that are already anchored by something else, like a meal or bedtime, and attach your reading to that. It has made all the difference for us.

Quiet Time and One on One Time

After lunch we do quiet time and nap time for my three year old. He sometimes still naps, and this time has become really valuable for all of us.

At the beginning of quiet time, I make sure to spend some one on one time with each of my girls. Even though I am home with my kids all day, it is surprisingly hard to get quality one on one time with them unless I prioritize it. I have found that carving out even a short window of focused time with each child is so important. They need it, and honestly, I need it too.

I also have my seven year old read to me during this time so she continues to get practice with that. It is a quiet, calm part of our day and I treasure it.

Our Homeschool Rhythm Cards

One tool that has made a huge difference for us is our homeschool daily rhythm cards. I made these for my kids, and they absolutely love them. The idea is simple. Each card represents something in our day, like math, language arts, brushing teeth, Bible time, and so on. Once we complete something, my kids get to stick that card up on the wall.

They love this so much. There is something about physically placing a card on the wall that makes them feel proud of what they have accomplished. And it keeps all of us accountable too. We can look at the wall and see exactly what we have done and what is left. It gives the kids ownership over their day and helps them see the rhythm of our routine in a visual way.

Along with our rhythm cards, I also give my kids three jobs to do before dinner each day. I tell them what their jobs are at the beginning of the day, and they get to choose when they do them. They just need to be done before dinner. So for my seven year old, a common job might be fold the laundry or pick up the basement. When they complete their jobs, they get to put their job sign up on the wall too. They love it, and it has been a great way to teach them responsibility and give them a sense of accomplishment. Plus it actually helps me out around the house! You can read grab these “3 Jobs” templates from my post here!

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A Few More Tips That Help Our Days Run Smoothly

One trick I have used to help my three year old stay entertained while I am trying to do schoolwork with my girls is rotating toy bins. I have bins with toys in them, and I bring out a different bin each morning with a few toys he has not seen for at least a week. It usually keeps him entertained long enough for me to do some of our school work with the girls. But mixing things up throughout the day, getting outside, and including him in anything I can also works well and keeps our day joyful and smooth.

When Do We See Friends?

You might be wondering, when do we see friends? We definitely do not do play dates like we used to. But I have found that meeting a friend for lunch time works really well for us. The kids get to socialize, we get to catch up with other families, and it fits naturally into our day without throwing off our whole rhythm. It does not have to be complicated. Sometimes the simplest plans are the best ones.

Some Days Are Smoother Than Others

I want to be really honest with you. Some days everything clicks and our rhythm flows beautifully. Other days, someone wakes up cranky, the three year old is extra needy, and nothing goes according to plan. That is just real life with young kids at home.

But what I have learned is that having a rhythm, not a rigid schedule but a gentle rhythm, gives us something to come back to. I have found that the more structured our days are, not by times but by rhythms, the less stressful and more joyful our days go. Everyone knows what to expect. Even on the hard days, the kids know what comes next. They know we start with core subjects, then we do our subject focus, then we play, then we read. That predictability gives them security and gives me peace.

If you are feeling overwhelmed trying to figure out your homeschool days, my biggest piece of encouragement is to start small. Pick your core subjects and commit to doing those consistently. Build from there. You do not have to do everything every day. You do not have to have it all figured out right now. Just show up, be faithful with what you can, and trust that it is enough. Because it is.

I hope this look into our daily rhythm was helpful and encouraging! If you have any questions or want to share what is working well in your home, I would love to hear from you. Please comment below!

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